That having been said, psychotherapy can be defined as a process focused on helping people heal from emotional and psychological problems as well as learn constructive ways to deal with life’s challenges by using the communication and relationship built between a client and a professional therapist.

Therapy can also provide support if you’re experiencing a difficult life transition or facing a time of increased anxiety and stress, such as when going through a separation or divorce, starting a new career, or dealing with the loss of someone you love.

Most psychotherapy tends to be goal-oriented and is focused on solving the specific problems that cause you to seek professional help. At the beginning of therapy, you and your therapist will discuss the specific changes you’d like to make, decide on the goals of treatment, and break these goals down into more easily attainable milestones so you can track your progress.

Achieving therapeutic goals is carried out by open interaction and by using techniques your therapist provides that will help you navigate the problems you’re experiencing. Your therapist will also recommend resources and help you acquire techniques that will allow you to overcome new obstacles in your life long after therapy is complete.

How is psychotherapy different from talking about your problems?

While most psychotherapy centers on the communication and relationship created between you and your therapist, therapy involves much more than simply talking about your problems.

Family and friends may be able to help you feel better from time to time, and some may even provide helpful advice for you to consider, however, these interactions do not constitute psychotherapy. Psychotherapy is a strictly professional relationship between you and your therapist that is different from other relationships in a couple of important ways.

The nature of the psychotherapy relationship

As mentioned, the relationship between you and your therapist is strictly professional. The therapist-client relationship exists solely for your benefit and to help you achieve the goals you set at the outset of therapy. The therapist expects nothing from you in return for their services other than payment for their time.

This is an important point and the defining factor between the therapy relationship and all other relationships. You can tell your therapist almost anything without worrying about offending them, about them telling someone else, or about having what you say affect your relationships or career in any way.

Another significant difference between your relationship with your therapist and your relationships with other people is that your therapist will seldom, if ever, mention their personal opinions with you so that you feel as comfortable as possible and not alter the way you present yourself.

The nature of therapeutic communication

Unlike family members, associates and friends, therapists are trained to understand what you say, what you don’t say, and how you do or don’t communicate. Your therapist will pay attention to your body language, intonation, and other cues to fully understand your thoughts, feelings, and ability to express yourself.

Therapists have obtained substantial education and training to assist them in understanding the particular challenges you’re dealing with. They are well-versed in the signs and symptoms of psychological disorders and skilled at helping people cope with and overcome the difficulties and stresses of everyday life.

Therapists also know what questions to ask in order to help you open up and honestly express yourself, and your therapist will likely ask several questions you’ve never been asked. Bear in mind, your therapist’s and your communication will not be equal. Therapists will seldom reveal their personal opinions on subjects such as politics or religion.

Who can benefit from psychotherapy?

It’s not uncommon for therapy to be suggested whenever someone is struggling with a relationship, career, or life issue or a particular emotional concern that causes emotional discomfort or pain continues for more than a few weeks.

As with any rule, there are exceptions, but for the most part there is little to no harm in going to therapy even if you’re not entirely certain you can benefit from it. Millions of people seek the help and support of a psychotherapist every year, and most research shows that people who do so benefit from the experience. Additionally, most therapists will be honest with you if they believe you won’t benefit from therapy.

Psychotherapy is most successful when you begin therapy on your own initiative and have a strong desire to create the change you seek. If you don’t want to change, change will be slow to come if it comes at all.

Creating change means altering the behaviors and beliefs that are no longer serving your best interests. Since, psychotherapy is about challenging one’s beliefs about themselves and they way the world works, it is best to keep an open mind and be willing to try new things.

If you’re ready to ask for professional help and do the work necessary to make therapy a success, psychotherapy can help you create positive, lasting change in your life and be one of the best investments you’ll ever make.

Pamela Levy is a psychotherapist in San Mateo, CA, where she specializes in providing psychotherapy, therapy, and counseling services.

Hypnosis and hypnotism have become common terms, but what do they actually mean? The word “hypnosis” itself is derived from “hypnos”, a Greek word meaning sleep. It is most commonly defined as “a trance-like state of heightened suggestibility”.

While the ideas and concepts behind it have been around for thousands of years, medical science has come to recognize and accept it only in the last 50 years or so.

Scientists and researchers who study this field now recognize that this trance like state has a number of special qualities. When someone is in this state, the areas of their mind that are usually out of reach, now become accessible. Specifically, hypnosis offers direct access into the subconscious mind.

Hypnosis today is being used to treat psychological disorders and problems, as an alternative and safe way of controlling habits, and to improve one’s mental health and attitude. Hypnosis therapy, or hypno therapy, can be extremely effective.

Quitting smoking, losing weight, overcoming fear, even surgical recover and medical problems are all areas where these methods are being used to great effect. There are even those able to overcome chronic problems such as alcohol and drug abuse without the need for inpatient treatment.

Self-hypnosis is one area that has been growing rapidly in recent years, due in large part to the Internet. There are thousands of resources available online, including guides, exercises, and audio recordings. Some websites offering specific self hypnosis audio recordings serve up thousands of downloads every day.

Hypnotherapy home-study courses are another growing area. For many people who might not seek out a hypnotist out of distrust or stigma, this type of self-help is more accessible and acceptable.

Hypnosis is a vibrant and growing field. For those seeking to improve their understanding in this area, or are just beginning to explore it, websites like Hypnosis-X.info can provide a wealth of information.

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When it comes to making snap judgments, which can cause fear to rear its ugly head, it is something which happens on a barely conscious level. This is the ‘lizard brain’ at work. To put it simply, the lizard brain is purely concerned with survival. This is why we can do irrational things when we are in a tight spot. Fear can be stored as emotional memories, and that is what can trigger certain physiological actions within you. In order to overcome and rationalise a particular fear emotion you need help in shifting those particular memories.

Brainy evolutionists tell us we have had this reptilian brain thing going on for millions of years. This is why we sometimes act irrationally when in a tight spot. When our reptilian brain kicks in we act automatically and without thinking about what we are doing, hence we can become injured while fleeing nothing more than a false reaction. This can be brought on by the most mundane of things.

Accommodating these fear emotions is like feeding a hungry lion, it will only become hungry again and you have to go through the same cycle. So why not just rid yourself of these fear emotions for good, as that is the answer to the fix you require. You wouldn’t get out of your car when travelling around a wild animal park and embrace a wild lion, and that is how you have to see your fear. Do not embrace it as it will bite you nastily. Yet some therapists say you should embrace your fear! Well of course now you can see that this advice is very risky, as unsafe as asking you to embrace a wild lion! Why? Well because all what you are doing is storing that fear emotion within your lizard brain’s memory banks, and then it can be drawn on again and again to make you feel just as bad the next time you are confronted by what it is you are feared of. So do be warned.

Why is it dire to allow these fear memories into your life? To accept these negative thoughts reinforces the emotion of fear. Accepting the feeling can reinforce it even more at a later stage. Some therapists advise you to accept the feeling of fear so as to nurture your true self. This is unreliable as it causes more emotional memories to be stored in what is known as the lizard brain, and hence your fear is perpetuated.

How do you overcome this and escape being the grip of fear? Self-help guru and best selling author Stephen Richards says, “When fear strikes you it is your lizard brain, scientifically known as the amygdala, which takes over. Your nervous system is flooded with powerful neurochemicals. Hence your senses, such as hearing and vision, become heightened. The amygdala blocks out anything that competes for your awareness, this why the fear grips you so much. Naturally at this stage all of your resources are devoted to keeping you alive. The number one fear is public speaking followed by asking someone out on a date. This is fear of rejection.”

What is fear? Fear has been described as a neural circuit that has been designed to keep the organism (you) alive in dangerous situations. The amygdala determines the significance of the stimulus and triggers emotional responses like freezing or fleeing. This is a process that would best be described as the ‘emotion of fear’. The amygdala is the storage area where the memory of fear is kept.

Why is it that when you get an attack of fear that occasionally you can become incapacitated? Simple, it is related to the hyperactivity of the amygdala! This almond sized object is the storehouse for the memory of fear! The amygdala can misinterpret physiological signals from the body and cause inappropriate actions. Then in the cold light of day you can see how ridiculous you behaved, but too late … the emotion is stored. This is how your fear/panic manifests itself. The definition of panic is a heightened state of anxiety. This fear/panic feeds off itself in a positive feedback loop and jumps to faulty conclusions.

The defective signals sent out to your body by the reptilian brain can take you into a sensitive condition known as panic or anxiety. Then it nourishes itself by virtue of this continual loop and reacts in the exact same way when that set of circumstances comes on. This is how it goes on, but now there is a real opportunity to resolve that. Fear of spiders, flying, open spaces, enclosed spaces, heights and so on are things that can set off bodily changes. It is these physiological changes that bring on all those negative feelings within you like: dry mouth, dizziness, trembling, increased heart rate, pain in your chest, difficulty in swallowing, tightness in your chest, etc, etc. So why live like that? You can now change that for the better.

Once this emotion of fear has been turned on it is difficult for the cortex to turn it off. Fortunately there are methods of reducing fear and inhibiting the fear response. So just how do you go about overcoming these ‘false’ alarms? Well there is something called ‘immersion’ therapy; you are literally thrown into the very situation that brings on the fear within you. Then there is cognitive therapy, you are slowly exposed to what it is you have a fear of.

Perhaps in an effort to overcome this irrational fear you’ve read all the self-help books and listened to all of the hypnosis or subliminal downloads you can handle, and all with little success in eradicating that irrational fear. So what now? One way to overcome your particular fear is to replace some of your negative thoughts (that creates negative feelings) with unmistakable positive thoughts.

A specially designed fix has been devised and tested, the result is something that is far more powerful than hypnotherapy or even subliminal messages. Now the barrier to overcoming irrational fear has been lifted. The most up to date technology has been used to create a solution to your problem. Top self help coach and best selling author Stephen Richards has created a simple method that beats just about anything you will lay your hands on at the present time of writing.

In order to really make inroads into eradicating your fear a specially designed audio was formulated that uses techniques to get right to the core of the problem, and in rapid time. By using up to date methods with brainwave technology it was found that it defeated the need to use outdated self-hypnosis or subliminal messaging.

There must be 1001 ways to overcome irrational fear, but none so fast as this method. This method overcomes the need for frequent visits to your hypnotherapist, and of course saving you the immense cost too. The specially made CD by Stephen Richards zones in to the heart of the problem, and the best part is you can hear every word being spoken. What would have been thought impossible ten years ago is now reality. In less than 30 minutes the primary track on the CD targets the area in need of help, simple as that.

This remarkable up to date method designed by Stephen Richards used in the “Releasing You From Fear CD” is unique because it targets the zone of the amygdala. It totally disarms the harboured memories of the specific fear emotion that is causing you distress. Methods previously used to target this area did not take into account the fear emotion and how your lizard brain reacted in certain trigger situations. Minor obstacles and irritations which were once magnified and a cause of the cycle of fear can now be fixed.

Stephen Richards is a best selling author and self-help guru, who shows entrepreneurs how to manifest the success that is the natural consequence of living their hearts’ desires with integrity, authenticity, and passion. He has designedthe “Releasing You From Fear CD”. He has helped hundreds of thousands of people through personal and professional transformation.